Turn off the lights....?

My husband had turned on several lights this morning and didn't bother to turn them off. I turned them off and said, "Now I see where our son gets the leaving the lights on from, are you afraid of the dark too"? He got angry and told me I leave the lights on too and he never says anything about it. He told me he's tired of my "snide comments" and I need to find my own way to the mountain today if I want to snowboard because he's not taking me. He never says thanks for the nice things that I do for him. He only wants to comment about things that I do that annoy him. I admit I leave lights on once in awhile but who doesn't? I don't think I'd ruin everyones Thanks Giving because someone commented about me leaving lights on.