LGBT: What do you look for in a partner?

I was on my friends Myspace page and I read on of their blogs that said The Perfect Guy. So I read it and she said she wants a guy who is mean to other girls but treats her sweet...I was lke wtf if I had a gf she would have to treat my friends with respect. I want a girl who is kind, caring, respectful, sweet, and has a good personailty she could be either butch or femme idc as long as she makes me happy=] What about you??